I say go for it girlfriend! Take the chance, one more time. But be clear what you're looking for, trust your instincts, and keep dating dating dating :-) You're super and deserve only the best!
Lee
· 1 year ago
Wah! That's not a fair question to lob on us! But I will give you some thoughts regardless! At one level it is easy to say 'get on with your life, do what you enjoy and maybe someone will find you'. Maybe. My experience with resolutions and goal is that , if they are written down, you are more open to recognising an 'opportunity' when it comes your way. If you resolve (remember: written!) to find a man then you will be more likely to accept social invitations, go to places where you will meet others and generally be more 'assessing' in how you interact with people. What you don't want is an air of desperation that will firstly scare the herd and secondly possibly push you into a hasty decision. Overall: live life with one eye open. How's that?
CF
· 1 year ago
Match.com is like the bar scene online. At least in LA it was. I found much higher quality people on eharmony, even though it's more expensive. You have to answer a ridiculous number of questions, and any guy that's willing to do it is more serious than any Match.com guy. the downside to eharmony? Bill and I were on it at the same time and it didn't match us up. So it's not the be all and end all like it says in the commercials. I would be willing to be set up by your friends, but maybe not family. I say do it, you never know what you'll find!
sd
· 1 year ago
my 2 cents... do it only if you want to. not having someone does not make you any less of a person. boo to anyone who thinks that way. don't give up though! i'm sure there is someone out there for you, who is not your elderly aunt's best friend's son's next door neighbor's dog walker (and i have have nothing against dog walkers...i want to hire one if we get a dog). i dare say, move to CA. we have a fab and plentiful selection of whatever the heck you're looking or not looking to find. ;)
VM
· 1 year ago
yooooo chica, nice work. very nice read and you know, as someone who has related to everything youve said, i would say go for it. bc while all that is nice and true, and me of all people appreciate independence and just not giving a shit about anyone but me.... its fockin nice to have someone. and you deserve that. but not sure about match being the perfect venue, but who knows. my cousin whos a decent guy met his girly of over a year on match and they just bought a boat together -- their plan is to sail the s pacific next year. and my ex brian from san ho is marrying his eharmony girl next year. yes, nc is random, but perhaps it would be better to find that random person online. especially since youre an excellent writer and can appropriately portray yourself... and maybe hes hiding out too bc hes scurred of bars where everyone seems to has blonde hair (regardless of whether the drapes match the carpet...or was it curtains??!?!? haha). im just sayin, why not. better than a billboard with your face on it... "want wood?" maybe.
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